On Thursday and Friday for the first time in a long while
I got to be with my sisters. We
were given some potentially devastating news and we are nothing if we aren’t
supportive during difficult times.
We piled in the car with my mom and drove to get my grandma in Apple
Valley. After two days I found
myself exhausted but completely thankful and not wanting it to end.
I have two sisters…together we are 41, 42 and 44. We are all driven, constantly moving
and doing. We are all creative and
quilt as an outlet for that creativity.
It brings fulfillment and without creating we are bored. We are all mothers and take that title
so seriously that it describes the very core of us. We love our kids to a fault. When they are happy we are thrilled, when they hurt we ache,
when they are disappointed, we are devastated.
My daughter describes us as three of the same person and
when we are together we slip into a world where we almost telepathically
communicate and uncontrollably laugh.
We are all sisters of the same mother, all parts of the same, all
equally different.
Temre is the oldest, the
Romantic, the Funny One. There is no situation that she can not make hilarious
and spending one good day with her can keep you giggling for days to come. She is the most emotional and not only
wears her heart on her sleeve she wears her emotions pinned all over the front
of her. She carries them with her
and periodically they weigh her down completely.
With complete abandon she loves
and works and the rest of the world fades. She has found balance as she has gotten older, and with that
balance she has found a drive that is admirable.
Buffie is the youngest, the
Realist, the Skinny One. She has
always been so naturally thin that she had us forever longing. She is the baby of the family and she
is the peacemaker. The one who
wants everyone to be happy at any cost.
She is so unpretentious and humble that she can poke fun at your weakest
parts and because it is so honest it is impossible to do anything but laugh.
Buffie is generous and viciously loyal, she is selfless
financially and emotionally to a fault and definitely the most compassionate,
but she carries her worries inside, shoving them further and further down until
they eat at her health. As she has
matured she has learned much about self restraint and how to do many things
well but thankfully she has never learned how to stop loving unconditionally.
I am the middle girl, the
Idealist, the Pretty, Smart One.
First, I get two labels because I have so many other negative ones,
second before you take them as me being prideful, you have to realize that in
the order of importance I rank at the bottom, with Funny being the most
desirable trait and Skinny in a close second, if not first sometimes.
I am definitely practical to a
fault and tend to take myself too seriously most of the time. I carry my cares neatly packed in a
backpack, where I can’t see them and am in control of what I deal with and
when. Unfortunately most of the
time God allows me to trip, spilling them all out at once where I have to let
go of my control and surrender my pride.
I will quickly trade emotion for
information and compassion for honesty, which comes in handy only on the rare
occasion and is why I am commonly the “mean sister” as well. It is also the reason I cherish the
attributes of my sisters so much to whom humor and compassion come so
naturally.
We are coming into what could possibly be the most trying
season of our lives as sisters, as mothers, as wives and as daughters. There
quite possibly could be bickering, I’m pretty sure there will be tears…but I’m
also sure the tears will be mixed with laughter and I’m positive that is what
is going to keep us sane.
This is one of the many reasons I am so proud to call you family. I love you and Temre and Buffie. Praying for all three and the rest of the family every day!
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful post of beautiful people~ and to add to your description~ you all have such beautiful names. Would love to know the why behind them all. I have three big bios and they sound a lot like you girls. I am so thankful they will have each other after me~ they call themselves the 'originals'. :) SO thankful EK and SJ have each other and just another reason I am SO sure Will will have Gray to love forever too!!! I am praying for you all already~ whatever is going on, God already knew, already knows what, and how and why!!! SO thankful you started this blog and SO happy to get to know you more. Blessings and love!
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Thank you so much Sharon, I am so thankful to have such a sweet encourager like you on the other side of this screen:) I know that Gray will be home with you someday too and I hope hope hope that we all get to hang out, in person, some day.
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